RENEGADE MILLIONAIRE
IDEA OF THE MONTH:
Wisdom Of Children
In his speech,
Trump made two observations, brief asides, that are actually
extremely important.
He said that he asks lots
and lots of questions, of those who work for him, of
those he does business with, of people he can learn
something from.
He also said the obvious: you
don’t get if you don’t ask. You ask for the moon, ask for
everything you want, the way you want it, and keep
asking, never accepting the first refusal. Come back and ask
again, slightly differently. Come from a different direction
with same request.
Kids are very, very good at
both those things. These skills: asking lots of
questions, and asking for what you want repeatedly and
persistently – these skills are apparently innate and
natural. Installed pre-birth. Given to us in womb, brought
with us to the world. Then our parents, teachers, ministers,
everybody grinds us down, beats us up, suppresses our use of
these skills.
A kid will ask 1,000 questions
in a day. Most adults probably ask 20 or 30.
A kid will ask 100 times for
what he wants. He’ll keep coming back again and again. He’ll
bargain, negotiate. The average sales professional stops
trying to close a deal after 3 measly attempts. |